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Dating Coaching

Does this sound like you?

    • I want to try online dating or dating apps, but I’m intimidated by the process.
    • I tried online dating, but I found it overwhelming and like a second job.
    • I go on dates and they’re not BAD, they just aren’t good.
    • I’ve been online dating for years and I feel burnt out and discouraged by the process. Maybe I’m just meant to be a single cat lady.
    • I go on a date and finally feel like I have a connection with someone and then I never hear from them again.
    • What’s the point of online dating- after matching with people all I hear is crickets.

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If you’re new to dating apps and online dating

Who has the time to fiddle with these apps and try to figure them all out? Starting off strong with the right online dating apps, an excellent profile, and the skills to turn matches into dates will save you tons of time and energy. You can streamline the process of going from knowing nothing about online dating to meeting the kind of matches you want and finding love.

You’re welcome to muddle through the process, spend hours on the apps with nothing to show for it, and worry about getting catfished or scammed. Or you can learn the skills and techniques right up front and do it right the first time.

It will take work on your part, but it doesn’t have to be complicated. If you think you may need an excel spreadsheet to keep track of everyone you’re talking to on dating apps, you’re doing it wrong.

Let’s work together to help you achieve your dating and relationship goals. Let’s make this process as simple and enjoyable as it can be. Your time is valuable and healing after bad online dating experiences is no joke. Let’s do it right the first time. I love efficiency.

If you’ve been online dating for a while

What needs to change? Your dating mindset and your strategy.

When you’ve been online dating for years you can start relentlessly questioning yourself (and well meaning friends and family members may join in). Are you being too picky? Are your standards too high? Surely you should have met someone by now and settled down if you were really lovable.

Then there’s the toll dating takes on your self esteem. Feeling like you’re getting rejected over and over chips away at your confidence. You thought you were smart, attractive, successful, educated, with a great life, but if that was true why aren’t any of your dates seeing that? Plus the only thing all of your dates have in common is they’re going out with youso clearly you are the problem.

Let’s work together to hit the reset button on your dating mindset. Continue reading Dating Coaching

My Top 3 Online Dating Tips

I’ve been dating online for over 10 years now. I’ve helped friends with their dating profiles and after taking my advice they have found serious long term relationships, gotten engaged, and some are now married and have kids together. I think that relationships with other people and the experiences you have with those people are what life’s all about.

When you begin dating online or using dating apps it can be overwhelming. In the beginning you can get so much attention it feels like you’ll need to hire an assistant to organize all of your potential matches. Then after a few days or weeks it feels like the exciting spotlight you had is now gone and you’re just having the same boring conversation over and over.

Maybe you send out messages and no one ever responds. Or you wonder why you’re not seeing anyone you’re interested in or getting those exciting “It’s a match!” pop-ups anymore. How can you re-ignite your Tinder flame and feel hot again? How can you get people to turn into heart eye emojis that immediately swipe right on your profile? How can you make sure you’re matching with the right kind of people? How can you stop the never ending supply of pen pals that want to text you all day and never meet up?

I’ve made a guide with my top 3 all time best online dating tips. Whether you’re just getting started dating online or you’re a veteran  online dater who is feeling burnt out on online dating these tips are for you!

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Free Dating Apps

A friend came to me recently asking to recommend some good free dating apps. She is currently going through a separation and didn’t want it to show up on a credit card bill (could you blame her!?)  I posted back in January the Dating Apps to Try in 2017 which included Hinge, Bumble, The League, Happn, and Coffee Meets Bagel. All of these apps you can use for free, but have in-app purchases available. The good news is that these apps don’t have to directly charge your credit card- you can always buy an iTunes or Google Play gift card and load it to your account and then make the purchase!

My friend also doesn’t live in a big city which means that not all of these apps are currently available to her. I’m also going to skip Coffee Meets Bagel because for some reason this app does not appeal to me and I barely use it.

Free Dating Apps With Paid Upgrades Available

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